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Tying the Knot with a Bang: A Guide to Throwing an Epic Wedding

Updated: Mar 11

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Weddings are a celebration of love, commitment, and the beginning of a new journey together. Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, but it doesn't have to be stressful. With proper planning, you can throw an epic wedding that everyone will remember for years to come. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to throw a wedding:


Step 1: Set a budget

Weddings can be expensive, so it's important to determine your budget before you start planning. Decide how much you can afford to spend and allocate funds for each aspect of the wedding, such as the venue, catering, attire, and decorations.


Step 2: Choose a venue

The venue sets the tone for your wedding, so it's essential to choose the right one. Consider your budget, number of guests, and location. Make sure the venue has everything you need, including tables, chairs, and a dance floor.


Step 3: Hire vendors

You'll need to hire vendors for the wedding, such as a caterer, photographer, florist, and DJ. Research and interview multiple vendors to find the ones that fit your budget and style. Ask for references and check online reviews before making a final decision.


Step 4: Create a guest list

Decide on who you want to invite to your wedding and create a guest list. Make sure to include everyone who is important to you, but keep in mind your budget and venue capacity.


Step 5: Choose the wedding party

Select your wedding party, including the best man, maid of honor, bridesmaids, and groomsmen. Make sure they are reliable and supportive, as they will be involved in the planning and execution of the wedding.


Step 6: Send out invitations

Send out invitations at least six weeks before the wedding date. Make sure to include all the necessary details, such as the venue, date, time, dress code, and RSVP instructions.


Step 7: Plan the details

Plan the details of your wedding, such as the menu, decorations, and music. Make sure everything fits your budget and personal style.


Step 8: Enjoy the day

On the day of the wedding, relax and enjoy yourself. Let your vendors handle the details, and focus on the love and happiness you share with your partner.


Tips for Throwing an Epic Wedding:

  1. Start planning early to avoid last-minute stress.

  2. Delegate tasks to your wedding party and family members to help with the planning process.

  3. Be open to new ideas and creative solutions.

  4. Make sure to communicate clearly with your vendors to ensure they understand your vision.

  5. Don't forget to take breaks and enjoy the process. Planning a wedding should be a fun and exciting experience!


My Intimate Wedding Tale

Despite my love for planning extravagant parties, I yearned for a more intimate celebration for my wedding. My time at the University of California, Santa Barbara, and my experience in the hospitality industry exposed me to numerous couples who chose the courthouse in Santa Barbara for their nuptials. The courthouse, one of the most beautiful I've ever seen, became the backdrop for my own special day, albeit with a guest limit of only 13.


Graciously accommodating my preference for an intimate affair, my husband and I exchanged vows inside the courthouse. The ceremony unfolded on the courthouse steps, officiated with sweetness and charm. The magic of the moment was sealed with a kiss, accompanied by ringing bells and the flight of birds—a perfect tableau. Our wedding license was obtained inside the courthouse, making it a seamless and memorable experience.


Following the ceremony, we continued our celebration at the Wine Cask, where we rented a room for a delightful lunch. The next day, our small wedding party embarked on a wine-tasting tour, turning our wedding weekend into an epic and unforgettable experience. Remarkably, this dreamy celebration didn't break the bank. I wholeheartedly recommend this approach for an unforgettable and budget-friendly wedding


Throwing a wedding can be a fun and memorable experience. By following these steps and tips, you can create an unforgettable celebration that will be cherished for a lifetime. So, go ahead and tie the knot with a bang!


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